Absolutely Zane, you are entitled to feel any way you like. Just remember this is more aimed the the community in and around THIS site, as I said breeding will continue all over the place.
BUT, if the approved breeders here develop a really good reputation, it will start becoming a way to draw more breeders here because buyers will start asking "Are you an approved tarantulas.co.za breeder?".
As long as at least two other breeders vouch for you to become an approved breeder, you can be an approved breeder and have no part of this website at all - keeping all your deals private. But should someone ask if you are an approved breeder, you can say yes and you can forward them to your profile on the site - and they will know they are dealing with someone they can trust just a little bit more.