not sure what it might be, any help will be appreciated!
it is about 7cm and a few years old, unsexed

Eupalaestrus campestratus??

(Aphonopelma seemanni Costa Rica) ????

Shame it looks a bit tarted and tarn.
How many years have you had it for?

it did not want to stand nicely cos of the bright light to take the pics
i think it just over 3 years old(its a friends)

NB!!
its colour is very golden, the photos do no justice
if u look carefully it has hardened/fused hairs on it lower legs that feel like thorns to the touch(very wierd)

Could be a Grammostola pulchripes??

What name was it sold as? or what name does your friend have it marked as?

It has the so called "mirror patch" as with grammostola sp.

This spider is in very poor shape :ohmy:

How did your friend let this spider deteriorate to this state?

I don't think its Grommastola I think its Paraphysa sp. they also have a mirror patch