It's never easy to say goodbye to a friend, I hope we will still keep in touch. The message was shocking at first and I thought it was a April fools joke, none the less it's December, and a classified in the "For Sale" thread was the reality.
I understand your reasoning behind what you decided. As a friend I support your public announcement to dedicate your life to your family. I know this as you gave up your passion you had for the hobby to be a even greater dad and husband to your wife.
May God bless you and family.
Now while you were in the hobby you learn't that the female tarantula normally eats the male. You have 2 juvie female homosapiens and it does not work the same way. Nah no way. The dad normally in this case will have to watch his 2 offspring females, and kill all approaching males