ja i got the heat and humidity right eventually so im glad i have that covered!
so if he now decides to molt how long should i wait before i feed him again?

At least one week, but could by up to 2 weeks before he shows interest. I've found that the older a T gets the longer they go after a molt before eating again.

and the food i provide him after the molt should it not be a smaller cricket than normal or a half dead one to ease him back into it ?
when they molt do they do it at the bottom of the tank on the substrate or up at the top by his webs, cant they fall down during molt?

Terrestrial goes without saying. Arboreal will molt somewhere in their webs, could be on the ground, at the top or anywhere in between. (Don't take my word on this, I'm by no means an expert ) As for feeding, he won't eat if he isn't ready. If he is ready you can give him whatever. Like I said earlier, I give my slings 3/4 cricket drum sticks.

so here is me back on this topic again..

My little sling hasnt eaten in 10 days now. first thought he was maybe gonna molt but that doesnt seem to be happening.
should i be worried that he isnt eating? or am i just being a little over paranoid :blush:

@moukarzel your just a little paranoid I have a G. Rosea and he/she hasnt eaten in 3 months :huh: and i was exactly the same as you also checking in everyday to make sure there has been some activity. :dry: The best thing that you will learn in this hobby is patience!!!! :silly: Really just relax if your sling does not want to eat then extend the feeding to once a week and see if that makes a difference! In the time that passes you will see that your sling either moults or just needs to build up an appetite before it wants to eat again!