Shannon Lausch
on www.associatedcontent.com/article/115299...bies_pg3.html?cat=15 Wrote:

Ten Tips on How Not to Enrage Forum Regulars
Internet forums (also referred to as message boards) are a great way to connect to other people with similar interests.

To ensure a smooth sailing, here are ten tips on netiquette that apply to most forums.

1. Shun Netspeak: OMG!1! i was @ teh mall tdy & l saw it hppn if u dnt beleive me...
Netspeak refers to abbreviations (e.g., LOL, OMG, LMAO), misspellings, and a loose regard for punctuation. Abbreviations are usually acceptable. Nothing says newbie more than Netspeak. Sure, some Web sites thrive on Netspeak, but you can't go wrong writing in plain English. You'll be understood, and you don't risk getting mauled by a grammar nazi.

2. Avoid all caps: HEY GUYS, WHAT'S GOING ON IN THIS THREAD?
This tip is self-explanatory. If you don't know already, using all caps is considered shouting. Most people use caps as a way to standout in the thread comments. However, using all caps actually makes it harder to read your comment, and the only attention you'll receive is from forum members berating you and telling you that you're shouting.

3. Split up your text.
While forum members probably won't comment on splitting up your text, it's still something that will improve your post's readability. Dividing your sentences into paragraphs (three to four sentences per paragraph is a good number) ensures that people won't strain their eyes trying to read your post.

4. Don't spam: Hey everyone, I was wondering if you could come take a look at my blog! I just want some feedback; please tell me what you think!

People hate spammers. You hate spammers. But if you're new to a forum, even posting links to your own site will be considered spam. Your post will either be deleted or mocked by people who think you're trying to con them.

5. Don't be an echo: I agree. 
This tip mostly applies to forums that keep post counts next to your screen name. Forum members will think that you're just trying to boost your numbers if you post only a two-word comment. On other types of forums it may not matter as much. Still, people generally like to hear your full opinion instead of a simple "I agree" or "I disagree."

6. Use the search function.
Before you create a thread in the forum, check out the forum's search function to see if a similar thread has already been posted. At the very least, scan the first page of topics to see if your idea has already been discussed. If you don't find anything recent, then post away.

7. Respect the regulars.
Let's go back to point number six. Let's say you wanted to create a new thread and, using the search function, found an old thread on your topic from 2001. So, you go ahead and post your new thread. Within minutes, you get a response from someone: "Sigh (yes, people do actually type a theatrical "sigh"), this thread has been discussed here and here. Learn to use the search function. Newbies. Sheeesh."
At this point, you may want to reply with a sarcastic response of your own. Instead, either reply politely or just wait for other people to respond. There's always a few regulars that are overzealous with the search function or other rules. If it's necessary, allow more established members to deal with them.

8. Don't be afraid of the regulars: Hi, I'm new. Please don't hurt me.
At the other end of the scale, sometimes new people are overly obsequious. You don't have to be timid. Follow tip number 10, and you'll become more confident that what you're posting is valuable, and that it's not necessary to load your posts with a bunch of qualifiers.

9. Don't rile up people for the sake of riling them up: Anyone who thinks like that is a frickin' idiot. Get a life.

Of course, if your goal is to anger people, you're probably not reading this article on forum netiquette. In any case, it's always necessary to be polite. Even if you're stating your true beliefs, people will accuse you of being a troll (someone who will write inflammatory posts just to get attention) if you write your posts in a provocative way. People might also think that you're an alt (someone already on the forum who created a new account to be a troll).

10. Lurk before you post.

Each forum has its own culture and nuances. Maybe using Netspeak is the norm and typing in plain English is conspicuous. Maybe you should be rude and load your posts with swears. Read a few threads before you post. Some people will read forums for weeks or even months before they contribute. While that may be overdoing it, you should at least get a handle on the personality of the forum.

I found myself wanting to reply to this thread and then I couldn't think of anything to say, so all I'm going to say is "I agree"

I've been giving some consideration regarding the Term Netiquette.

Above and beyond what was said, I also know of members with nationalities other than South African, that is not speaking Afrikaans, and because I value them, I wish to urge other members, to maintain english as language on the public forum. Yes the shoutbox is temporary, but I would think it rude if I am not fluent or familiar with a language, and the shoutbox is flooded by said language, make no mistake, I have no problem with any person, speaking any language, as long as I can understand what they try to convey.

So see this as a request to keep it english please.

By all means use which language you're comfortable with in PM's between members you know will understand it.

TH

Great! I like the Netiquette!

we will also repost the Netiguette into another thread & blok it from replies!
so that we can advise all nubs to read the rules & netiquette! good job thanx TH

lol very old can of worms being opened up here...

Shoutbox is more the social part of the site and keeps random non tarantula related things out of threads and should be regarded as such. I agree that it is awesome to cater for international members but we are a predominantly a South African forum If you are going to shout at someone in the shoutbox (excuse the pun) every time someone speaks afrikaans you might be loosing more members than you would gain...

besides ... I have never heard any of these international members complain about using afrikaans in the shoutbox?

i agree....no really i do. i mean it this time!! unlike some of the other times!!
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